内地女生躺枪?老外痛骂台湾女生有点恶心 脾气坏还爱钱(2)
台湾女生
In the meantime, it comes across as easy for Taiwanese people to be pleasant and smiling on the surface, but I do believe that their most visceral personal and social identity dangerously lacks confidence and awareness with others at best, or is totally uninterested and racist deep within, ever so silently.
台湾人表面很和善又乐观;然而,
我不觉得他们真的是这样,他们缺乏足够自信和观察力,
不能真实表达个人情绪和认同感;
换个讲法,就是他们其实很冷漠,骨子里又带有种族偏见,
只是他们从来没讲出来罢了。
As an Adult Business Teacher, i listen to a lot of answers to topic questions in my class. when the topic gets around to love and relationships you always hear TW Girls saying the same exact shit.
我在一家成人英语补习班教授商用英文,跟学生聊过很多事情,也听到不少回应。
当我和学生聊到爱情和两性关系之类的主题,
台湾女孩子的回答都一样糟糕。
“i want a guy who is tall, understands me, is responsible, etc”
像是:“最好(个子)又高,了解我,又负责任,我最喜欢这样的男孩子了。”
The problem with this is they never really define what responsible is.From my experience, what they mean by responsible is “safe”. They want some castrated man with spiked hair who never takes chances, never moves in a direction that might make them feel unsafe, never walks the path less chosen. They want a guy who is just bent to their wishes for “their dreams” ie, the house, the car, the baby, the whole nine yards.
她们所谓的责任感,到底是什么?这就是问题所在。
就我长期观察,她们所谓的“责任感”,其实就是“安全感”。
她们想要一个男人,这个男人可以任由她们摆布;
这男人从不会令她们感到不安;
这男人最好盲从大众,在人生旅程内,不会走那些崎岖小径。
她们想要一个男人,这个男人最好能依照她们的意愿行事,
最好能将她们的意愿当作自己的梦想,
最好替她们买个房子,买辆车子,养个娃儿,买一堆东西!
Nothing is wrong with those things, except that they have become the “Price For Admission” so to speak, rather than the result of two people s love and efforts for one another. They constantly take shortcuts.
其实这也没什么。然而,她们总把这些事情当作是“爱的门票”,
而非“两人互信互爱的结果,彼此付出的结果”。
她们喜欢抄小路,而非走康庄大道。